I find most mainstream porn completely boring. We sometimes watch Lust Cinema — created by a European woman and a lot of what’s there is more realistic and therefore hot. What’s it like when two (or more) people actually connect and enjoy each other in an erotic way? That is way more interesting than some ridiculously hung (but otherwise unattactive) guy doing things to her that I know don’t actually feel good (or not as good as she’s pretending), all the while acting like he’s doing her a favor. Yawn….. stupid and boring and the actually violent stuff that is not about the deep trust of real BDSM culture is very disturbing.