I find anal sex much, much more comfortable after I’ve already had an orgasm. It seems to just relax me and the muscles involved enough to make it so much easier. It’s not something I do all of the time, but sometimes I’m in the mood for it, and a pinky in the ass during cunnilingus is a big Yes — that’s something that pushes me over the edge ever time.

I’ve only gotten DP to work once, but it was pretty fucking hot — just that feeling of being really filled, but probably more than that was the mental turn-on of realizing that I was fucking two men at once.

I’ve never used poppers, but they are reputed to relax the muscles in question as well. Lots of lube is a definite must!

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