I don’t have anal sex on a regular basis, but I do enjoy it from time to time. I use plenty of lube and it doesn’t cause me any discomfort, so I’ve never had any issues to date. Life is full of risks.

I find threesomes to be a beautiful celebration of human connection in a way that transcends just making love with my partner. I experience them as very life and love affirming. You should definitely have the sex life that feels best to you.

Dispelling cultural myths with research-driven stories. My favorite word is “specious.” Not fragile like a flower; fragile like a bomb! Twitter @ElleBeau

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