I absolutely love MFM and fortunately, James really likes it too, but we have had a very difficult time finding other men who want to participate. They are either homophobic and freaked out about being naked with another guy, even if they aren’t going to be sexually intimate with each other or they are uncomfortable with the idea that they are not “in charge.” MFM is really all about the woman, and she is kind of the lead, which many men aren’t used to or comfortable with. Most male escorts won’t do MFM. They are worried the husband/partner is going to get possessive, or that they aren’t going to get to shine as the “magic maker.” Guys who are able to get past all of this are in for a really good time because a sexually expressed woman is a sexually adventurous woman.

As much as I love MFM, I have never seen any porn that reflects that in a way that interests me. It’s all (that I have seen) been about a woman pleasing and satisfying more than one man at a time rather than them making her the center of attention. I do think there is more interest in MFM and that’s it’s become more socially acceptable, but in my experience, there are still a lot of barriers.

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