Good for you — Brava! About 10 years ago I started peeling off those expectations that come from the world outside. About 5 years ago I really amped it up and asked my husband if we could open up our marriage. It’s not always been a smooth ride, but it’s been a very fulfilling one for both of us. This is now my constant sermon — be who you are and let other people be who they actually are and the world will be a much better place.