Completely agree — I have so much more confidence now at 50 than I did in younger years; enough confidence to ask my long-term partner if we could open up our relationship. We’ve had a couple of younger men in our life over the years, and one that we are still in relationship with. They seem to have fewer hang-ups in general and I now enjoy a bunch of bands that I probably never would have been exposed to otherwise. Have fun….. I know I am!