“By default, your reaction to any human being with a penis that makes any attempt to question the efficacy of the fortress you’ve built around that suffering is going to be called every name in your vast catalog.”

Yes, you are quite right — snort! That’s how I’ve maintained my happy and fulfilling relationship with my husband for the past 30 years and how I have room in my emotional world for a loving commitment to my other partner, Nat. It’s how I have such a successful coaching practice and why I have so many fans and readers who constantly thank me for inspiring and touching them. 🙄


Dispelling cultural myths with research-driven stories. My favorite word is “specious.” Not fragile like a flower; fragile like a bomb! Twitter @ElleBeau

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