Long-term relationships are particularly hard on female desire, as Wednesday Martin, author of Untrue: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Infidelity Is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free, discovers. Maybe a feminist version of polygamy is just what women — especially older woman — need.
At age 50 my husband and I opened up our marriage and we are now involved in two different throuple dynamics, one with a man, and one with a woman. It has strengthened our already good relationship and helped me to really truly find myself as a woman and a sexual being. Perhaps it's not for everyone, but it should be more socially acceptable because it's very good for some.