As someone who has at times engaged in sexual activity with more than one partner at a time, I have to agree that connection is where it’s at. For that reason, we almost never do more than a threesome anymore because with any more people than that, connection is very difficult to maintain. And as you said, sex without some kind of real connection is just not going to be as good.

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