Amen! Most of mine aren't visible but the "did it hurt" is one I find particularly inane. My lover Tamera is covered shoulder to toe and she deals with a lot of this same shit all the time - the judgement, the questions. Mind your own business people.

Dispelling cultural myths with research-driven stories. My favorite word is “specious.” Not fragile like a flower; fragile like a bomb! Twitter @ElleBeau

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