A good and very informative article. James did some reading (without telling me) before helping me to squirt for the first time (about 5 years ago). I was really surprised but also do it all the time now. BTW, thanks for the tip on the waterproof pads. They look better, work better, and are less scratchy than old beach towels, which is what we were using before.
I don’t find that James uses a lot of force (certainly not lifting me off the bed). It’s more the steady massage of my G-spot with that come hither finger movement, while he (or I) am also rubbing my clit. But, everyone is an individual. Good story!